Writing a book is fun. No really, it’s lots of fun…the editing is what will make you want to just throw everything into the fireplace. It is such a labor of love, but if you do make it, in the end, it’s worth it. You’ll have made something that will stand the test of time, and be there for future readers to enjoy. It feels good to complete a project, but dealing with the constant anxiety of something not going right will make you crazy. Perfection isn’t the key here, it’s commitment. Follow through no matter what. Usually, the thing you fear the most when writing a book, is probably the least of your worries. Stand strong in your vision, and (this may sound cheesy) follow your heart. Trust your instincts. When working with people, be sure to control everything. At the end of the process, you’re the one who should be comfortable with the end product. I’ll write more about my “adventures in book writing,” and mistakes (because I’ve made them for sure); but it’s ok. Everything is a learning process, so failing isn’t an issue. Learn and keep pressing on. As for me, I have many many more novels to write. The ideas come to me regularly, so I have my own method of doing manuscripts and even how I work with my editor. Obsessing over every little detail just stunts progress and hurts your confidence as a writer. So many people never write a book, or finish because of things they’re worrying about that slows them down or stops them all together. Come on folks…get it together…Finish that book!

Yes friends…it’s time to pretty up. As a fashion writer and author, it’s imperative for me to look the part. Aside from battling anxiety when finishing books, or tackling a tough final edit; I do invest in living up to the Quirky Bombshell name. I love second hand shopping; Goodwill and the like. Creating fashionable looks is a joy for me to do. I like the hunt of finding something unique and one of a kind. I dare to venture to New York City, and shop in their thrift stores; don’t wanna lose my mind, but it is the fashion capitol after all. It’s such a thing though… and by thing I mean 😣 😤 😓 stress; trying to get everything together, organizing, and getting it just right. I have to let go of the fact that sometimes, you won’t find exactly what you want or need. Just wear what you have and keep it moving…but I digress…😏, no, not really. lol! 😘